I wrote these words of advice to a friend of mine today

As for scaling how much one person loves as to what another person Loves.
The amount that you love him might be the max you could love anyone. where he might feel emotionally a deeper love but maybe he is more capable to feel a deeper love then you are. Everyone is on their own gradient.

Like a person who is infatuated with someone might feel such a profound and strong pull towards this person to feel that the sun rises and falls by that person, but do they really love that person or the image they have created.

Love is very complex with many, many levels.

To you, just decideing to move in with this person means a lot and is a big commitment for you, where maybe to him, he moves in with every girl he's been in a relationship with. So might mean very little. So he has to show it in another way, his own way.