Why is it that people just can't admit they are wrong? Even when they do they seem to add a "but..." statement right after. Like my husband is a prime example of this. He got into a car accident a few months ago, and the first thing out of his mouth was, "It you hadn't wanted to go to that store, we wouldn't have gotten into this accident" I guess in a sence he is right, we wouldn't have been there if we were not running an errand for me. But I didn't make him pull out in front of that vehicle, and by no means did going to that store require him to smash the car up. The thing is if he had listened to me in the first place and had gone around back like I suggested, we wouldn't have had to cross that line of traffic. Now again the other day, he left his book at the hotel that we were staying at last week. So it is my fault of course, even though I told him twice to pack it away. But because I didn't go in and do another sweep of the rooms before I left, even though they all told me that they had already done a sweep and I was not in a position to do so. I know a lot of people make excusses when they do something wrong, but making excusses is different then blaming others for your mistakes. The thing worst about my husband is that when you ask him why he doesn't blame himself at all, he will tell you otherwise, for he does blame himself, he just doesn't communicate that to the world, which ends up causeing others to resent him. Good example is his co-worker who seem to absolutely hate him, and that seems to be one of his biggest complaints, that he always passes the buck so to speak. Yeah maybe his is right sometimes that his mistake have been caused by other's stupidity. But still you made assumptions that were not correct. Take reponsibility for that at least.